This doesn’t happen too often, but I am actually crying from reading this stupid post. I’m gonna put up my response as is even though it is a rage-post full of cussing, because I will probably never feel calm enough about this to react in any other way, and I need to know that I raised my voice and said NO instead of freezing and swallowing it.
I knew this was another shitty post demonizing Michfest. I felt my hackles go up when I saw them lumping in “intersex” with “trans,” but I wasn’t prepared for this:
trans and other mis-gendered-at-birth women
"TRANS AND OTHER MIS-GENDERED AT BIRTH WOMEN." WHAT IS THIS SHIT.
Many trans and intersex women feel exactly the same way, and yet are scrutinized and categorized as lesser versions of women, or not “real” women at all, due to biological variations deemed inappropriate for women to have.
No. NO, NO, NO, trans and intersex are NOT the same. MALENESS is not a “biological variation deemed inappropriate for women to have.” You like tautologies, huh? “Trans women are women.” Try this one: MALES ARE MALE. Maleness-plus-sex/gender dysphoria is not a “biological variation” to be conflated with intersex.
What if you were born with a larger-than-average clitoris?
What if you stopped dropping that as a hypothetical for a goddamn minute.
Would that make you a man? No, you know you are a woman because of the way you feel about yourself, your body and the way society treats you.
THAT is your “because?!” You think a woman with a larger than average clitoris is a woman because of her FEE-FEEs? Some news: women’s “feelings” have never been germane to this issue. More news:
A clitoris of any size is a female organ.
How do you not understand that conflating a large clitoris with a penis is beyond offensive and actually has a lot to do with how and why women with large clits get harmed in this culture?
I am a woman born with what you are calling “a biological variation deemed inappropriate for women to have” and MICHFEST WAS THE FIRST PLACE ON EARTH THAT TOLD ME AND SHOWED ME THAT I BELONGED THERE, AS A WOMAN, AS A FEMALE—AS IS.
Michfest welcomed me wholeheartedly and not “despite” my body. Michfest had no trouble recognizing me as a cunted creature. Michfest showed me that “female” is diverse enough to hold me within it. Michfest makes room for all females to be just as we are, together. Michfest is raw, unpasteurized, NONHOMOGENIZED females, together. Michfest is where I ugly-cried at the Day Stage, when Super Set played a song about being “perfect, just the way you are”—because I believed them, which was only possible because of where we were, because of the place we had built together, because of who I was surrounded with.
MEANWHILE, YOU ARE LUMPING ME IN WITH MALES BECAUSE OF MY “BIOLOGICAL VARIATION.” That is the same shit I have heard my whole damn life. That there is something suspect or not-female about me because of my body. No. I’ve tasted something beyond that bullshit and there is NO GOING BACK.
Rise, Amazons. Don’t let them do us this way. We need Her too much.
This is disgusting! They’re celebrating watching a man beat a woman bloody! There’s nothing revolutionary about some guy punching a woman in the face until she passes out. That’s the fucking status quo!
And that description of the crowd getting quieter, It sends…
***trigger warning: rape, assault***
•did not cause my father to beat me with a belt because my body language was ‘girly’
•did not cause neighborhood boys and classmates to beat me up for being ‘faggy’
•did not give me an eating disorder in high school as a reaction to my…
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An Open Letter to The New Yorker | Julia Serano
If you haven’t been following, read the original New Yorker story and then Julia’s full response. So, so important to constantly hold one another accountable, especially when one group’s “activism” exists only to cut another group down.
Trans woman checking in. Transgender activism has in fact been taken over by mean people who are out of control. What was actually left out of the New Yorker article is the fact that trans women commit crime, including violent crime, at the same rate as all males. Couple that with the fact that 75% of trans women do not have any form of genital surgery, and that trans women are known to rape women born female, and I’d say that women have every right to insist that sex matters.
David “Darlie” Brewster lived as a man until he was in his fifties, with a successful career as an animator. Then he got facial feminization surgery and breast implants, started posting inappropriate selfies, and has spent his retirement making comics about how “funny” it is that Cathy Brennan is a rape victim.
Former British politician Sarah Brown was invited to be the keynote speaker at the London Dyke March this year, despite the fact that Brown has said that vaginas are “offputting” and has also told women to “suck my formaldehyde pickled balls”.
Your own problematic fav Julia Serano has written at length about how unfair it is that lesbians don’t want to date trans women with penises (nice guy, much?), besides making up the patently offensive term “rapeaholic” to describe women in a futile attempt to “prove” that autogynephilia doesn’t exist.
I can keep going if you want, but I don’t want to.
As Andrea James recently pointed out, white, formerly heterosexually married trans women have been quietly taking over the boards of some of the most prominent gay organizations. That’s why GLAAD and HRC are now pushing the explicitly anti-female agenda that lesbians - that is, females who partner with females - no longer have the right to sex-segrated space. Given the reality of sexual violence by males against females - including attacks perpetrated by trans women - don’t you think it’s time to call bullshit on this agenda? I’m a trans woman, and I sure do!
Women are not the ones doing the oppression here. Just sayin’.
To me? They are meaningless. I cannot for the life of me fathom what they are and what they mean."Black women wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and see black women. White women wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and see women. White men wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and see human beings."
— Michelle Haimoff
The meaninglessness of biology in a world where female biology is overwhelmingly the target of anti-choice legislation, slavery, the withholding of education, forced/mandatory pregnancy, rape, murder, incest, paedophilia and mutilation, is a privilege that very few female human beings on this planet have access to.
If you are able to say to biology, “you are meaningless” then you have no idea what it is like to be oppressed on the axis of biology, and ignoring it is a violent slap in the face of the women and girls all over the world who are oppressed on the basis of being born female.
This cavalier attitude towards human biology and the behaviours that exist in response to it is dishonest, it is in denial, it is oppressive, and it is above all, misogynistic. It is also anti-intersectional, as it completely ignores how women of colour are further violated on the grounds of their biology.
Saying that sexual biology is meaningless is on the same level of delusion as, “skin colour is meaningless” or “disability is meaningless” or “race is meaningless, I cannot for the life of me fathom it or what it means.”
It is not meaningless. It is a biological reality, it is a group that people are born into and on this basis are subjected to horrific treatment that is specific to that particular group.
I know/know of women who have been raped and abused and tormented by men but still apologize for their “cis privilege”, still apologize for being born female, still apologize for taking up too much space, still apologize for excluding males or being afraid of males or not wanting to include males…